Wonderful life

Sep 30
2009

kengding2016Know two people, a very, very poor one. Rich is well-known real estate veterans, drove the 3.001 million vehicles, like photography, photographic equipment is more than 1 million classic, to Tsinghua read MBA.

Poor is the tread of human tricycles, and every day, waited at the supermarket side, pull a few odd jobs, one day down, good, earns 20 bad words on a few dollars. Living in the edge of a city about the demolition of the shanties, the home also has a paralyzed woman.

They lived very different lives, but have the same attitude towards life.

While the rich man rich, but it is also a romantic man, he said that money earned is used to show their ability, in addition, there are, how much? He built a lot of hope primary school, with his wife to Europe, travel, unlike other wealthy people do not stick to less busy feet.

Go to Tsinghua University to school, the professor said to be a test you will know who will run their own businesses. Everyone put in front of the whole mobile phone to go to boot. As they are the bosses level characters, the natural business is busy, all the phones ringing off the hook, only his cell phone was silent. Says, this man will live the most and most will be operating their own businesses, he know how to let go, know how to make their own private space.

He laughed, he said, I told his vice president, and only two major events that occurred can give me a call, one company with a fire company out of two major incidents died. The other, you can deal with their own, because the first decade, he has to lay a foundation.

Said he planned to retire at 45, then go around the Paipian Zi, with their own money publishing, not for anything else, because it is a dream of his youth.

He also brought his wife to live in the mountains. He said that when the little fairy that lived in the mountains.

He did not think Li Ka-shing, said that he was the loser, because more than 70 years old and still a front-line charge forward, can only say that no new blood. He should be decentralized, so, he is the more successful of the Li Ka-shing.

The rich have such a realm is not an easy task.

Well-being of the poor is not less than his.

Although the earned less home, his wife would be being, his wife will be singing, and he learned to pull erhu, eaten with rice, if necessary, a singing, and he is contented, although the poor are poorer points, can have his wife’s love , there are those like opera singing, he is also satisfied. His wife had been to Beijing, he pulled her to ride three, walked to sing. A TV photographed them, that they are wandering caravan, he laughs and says, that is a fun map.

The rich and the poor, how much joy the difference? If you use money to measure, a great difference between the rich can buy happiness for many of the seemingly happy, the poor can not. If the spirit to measure, it is almost the same, they feel happy, no one much less than anyone else.

Two kinds of life, like life, if you feel very happy, more money point less, really does not matter. Because, living out of a beautiful mind, it is the most wonderful life.

Be honest with yourself

Sep 29
2009

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People in the world can not do without friends, but the most faithful friend, or yourself to see if you are good at doing his own friends. To be able to make my own friends, you have to stand on their own than that outside higher and see farther, allowing panoramic views from the start to his life, to remind, encourage and guide. In fact, each one of us who, in addition to external self-other, all still has an inner spiritual self. Unfortunately, many people in this inner self is always sleeping with, even stunted. In order to enable the healthy growth of the inner self, you have to give it adequate nutrition. If you regularly read good books, meditation, appreciation of the arts and so on, have a rich spiritual life, you will feel in you really have a higher self, this self is your steadfast life on the road the spirit of close friends.

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I have two self-possession. A good move, what must be tried and what wants to experience. Another hi quiet, for all to examine and digest. This is another self, as if it sent me to this world event, at the same time has always been concern that the vision of my place within it, ready to recall it my side. Even though I suffered in the world, the most tragic disasters and failures, as long as know the way to return it, I would not annihilated. It is my patron saint, for I am guarding a forever home, so I will not go homeless.

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Impermanence of things makes the ancient sages advocated a number of retired ourselves up, quiet and inactive, indifferent. I hate this philosophy. I would love to see people set up a dynamic manner the cause of great joy to falling in love, stirring to enjoy life. But do not forget the most important thing: you still belong to yourself. Everyone is a universe, each person should have a self-sufficient spiritual world. This is a safe place in which treasure your most precious treasures, no disaster can not violate it. Mind is a strange book, only the income, no expenses, all the pain and joy of life, have turned into a valuable experience for income credited to its column. Yes, even the pain is also a kind of income. People seem to have two self-self to the world up a struggle, to pursue, and perhaps triumph, and perhaps lost return from his mouth, the other a quiet smile of self-will, this Bianti sweat and blood of tears with a smile of self-Ying come home to abundant spoils pointed out to him, who also have a return game losing streak.

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Sympathy between people, there is justice and humanity, there is love. Therefore, self-denial to help people in the world have mercy and gallant self-sacrifice. However, every person, after all, a biological and psychological individual, the most cutting their primary concern has been the most earnest manner only he can perceive. In this sense, for each individual, he was most concerned about is himself, he is also the world’s most concerned about is himself. To others he was more concerned with himself than he should be concerned about the person than others, more concerned with his own, as individuals are in violation of the biological and psychological nature. Conclusion: everyone should be self-sustaining.

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Do your own 1 cynics and critics, this is a self-cultivation, it enables us to maintain a sober and avoid falling into the pretentious or Guyingzilian the position ridiculous and sad.

Joy is very simple

Sep 28
2009

Everyone wants happiness. She is like a messenger that lets us forget troubles and suffering. There are many people born there are many factors that make him happy; there are many people, life, lonely wandering life, and happiness seems doomed to miss. However, as long as you carefully look for, it quickly found that: happiness is actually very simple.

Happiness can be practiced regularly. Happiness is a kind of self-cultivation, you can get through practice. This is not a secret, the question is when we have troubled times, take that happiness can actually go through a skill acquisition, rather than the mercy of a bad mood a little bit of Decan bite you. When feeling bored, the wear sports pants, to a two kilometers jogging, so that my Chuyishenhan, and then washed a hot bath; as experience working pressure, we also do not have a frown all day to take a hard pumping smoke, you can go outside, facing the blue sky and white clouds, with open arms, do a few long deep breath and roared at several more; you can over the Internet, chat, listen to music, fantasy that they have in the prize … … In fact, happiness belong to each one of us, it is also can be practiced regularly. Happy jogging on that occasion in a deep breath on that in that segment wonderful music, happiness is actually very simple.

Happiness is a choice. Heard such a story: Muhammad and Alibaba are good friends. On one occasion, a slap in the face Alibaba fought Muhammad, Muhammad was very angry to go to the beach wrote: One day a certain period, a slap in the face Alibaba fought Muhammad. On another occasion, when Muhammad is about to fall off a cliff, the Alibaba promptly pulled him one. Mohammed is very grateful, so carved in stone on the Road: One day a certain period, Alibaba saved Mohammed’s life. Alibaba is very puzzling. Muhammad smiled and told him: “I put between you and me unhappy with the mistake was on the beach in the hope that it is high tide when the water disappears without a trace; I put the happiness and friendship between carved in stone, and stone, like the hope that it immortal. ”

Muhammad is a wise man: he chose happy, so happy he was also selected. Some people always feel that their life is full of misfortune and sadness, they are wondering why some people are always happy for a day? In fact, the idea is very simple, which is their own choice. Forgive other people’s mistakes, and to give encouragement and the courage to correct errors; intention to remember their time to help others, and hearts filled with gratitude. In this way, you will be happy. In fact, happiness is the choice, the happiness carved in stone, you will always be happy. Happy In fact, as simple as that! f8445744dadad71a879473db

Happiness is understood to give up. Give also a kind of wisdom, and know how to give up you could find another at ease with happiness. Life sometimes is the case, you can not burdened with what they want has completed all of your entire life. So, if you want to achieve their goals, they must be discarded. Has nothing to do with the heart to, the confusion of ideas and personal considerations and the desire to give up, eyes only for what you want to achieve the goal, thus making it easier. Willing to be willing to, there are homes have too. Life of each person be able to bear the weight of a certain, if you are prematurely loaded with the road, after that you have to give up some of the original treasure in exchange for other things. Life of the option is so not perfect, but that is the true meaning of life. To reduce the burden of life, to give up some trouble, giving up some benefits, you will be able to move forward with ease, you and happy time soon. Happy In fact, simple as that.

Don’t let ideal ruin your life

Sep 28
2009

4e49fc458c11cb02cefca30fThis is a wide expanse of fields, the land is fertile and lush. In order to irrigate crops, farmers here, people dug two rivers, a small point, a big point. This large, we may just call him river bar.

At first, streams and rivers are diligently irrigation, the two sides bumper crops year after year. But one day, the river suddenly had an idea, he going to look at the sea. Life out of this idea, we can no longer contain himself. I am a river, how can we, and Natiao stream, as die of old age in this lonely countryside it. Rivers summon the power of whole body, a wave upon wave rushed from afar. Have to acknowledge that river is tough to overcome difficulties, he broke through many of the ridge with the peaks, he from his goal closer. Look back on stream, he was not help give birth to a heart of compassion: Oh, not the pursuit of the stream too.

Unfortunately, the last one day, river plunged headlong into the desert, and his point of water that soon evaporated. River shouted out “apprenticeship Czech Republic, the body does not die first, to make heroes of tears over a long lapel.” Will no longer disappear.

There is no water, no years, the river on the block, and a few years, the river has been filled.

The Natiao stream, still diligently irrigation of crops, the farmer’s harvest for the two sides has achieved a lot. In order to get more water to irrigate, it is to stream the river widened, but also a wide river than before. Stream bustling all day long, there are Huanyi vegetables and farm women, there are bathing the children play, there is boating fishing tourists … … Hachisuba Tada, rippling blue waves, water, fish and fat width.

Also the transmission through the generations multiply river by locals as “Mother River,” while the original to which the river has long been the slightest sign of a Xunbu Dao.

Rivers, he set the goal too ambitious, he forgot his own is nothing but a countryside of inland river. Thus, small-scale strong as a long time, more people arrogant ignorance, to see clearly. So, the pursuit should be moderate.

Creek’s success tells us that, based on their own to realize where the collective value of the value of the individual can be achieved. For example, you allow the company to improve performance, and grow and develop, and you value also out. Leaving aside the collective value of single-minded pursuit of individual success, often in vain.

Just be yourself

Sep 28
2009

6d4fccfc37fedc66d7887dc7I think God is a relative term. Like ants to a tree hole, a water drowned their children to God for the people of Nagasaki in 1945, that four American pilots looking for is a seamless cloud of God, for the 1519 The Aztecs, the Spaniards on horseback who is God.

In my childhood, Dad is God. He can decide whether or not I hit hit, although this matter in theory depend on my test paper on top of that figure. But the thing is not so, I really depend on his bashing good or bad mood … … or for him, of his work “God” my mood is good or bad. so this matter, such as chaos theory, has become difficult to predict.

As a God, it is another privilege that can set someone else’s life, such as my father, he saw me around wildly, I felt that I should cultivate an elegant hobby. He would consider a long time after the decision to let me learn traditional Chinese painting, the whole process of is also very odd, he did not for me to hire teacher, but directly bought Xu Wei, Shi Tao’s album let me copy, thinking that I would without a teacher. Whenever I occasion, he’s leaning against the chair leisurely on the decadent music in general listening to Teresa Teng’s side of my monitor. This is really painful process ~ I did not dare to duty, he does not respect the old.

I was lucky, relatively speaking, because soon her father will let me, but it can not go the whole blame him, we already live in a set of life for the sake of others, excessive Lane.

We have too many so-called thinker willing to do someone else’s God, they are most invigorating thing is to set someone else’s life, set the rules, as they themselves can not be done, it is very difficult to say.

Therefore, Mr. Gu Zhun, said: “China’s ideological and moral training of only, there is no logic, no philosophy.”

Not only is China’s philosophers, even such a great philosopher Plato is also happy to set up others. His “Utopia” is to Sparta as a prototype, and on people’s lives to do a variety of settings in detail, but we know that in the Peloponnesian War, the Spartans simply can not afford this big barracks outside temptations, the system quickly collapsed, who do not like fast-paced world ah.

Fortunately, there is no ideal country finally realized, Emerson said: “burned all the libraries it, because the value of all of them are in this book (referring to” Utopia “Lane).” I feel that these words are not burning is low, do you think it is a good one can do, can hinder your other books what ah.

Large and small in my life encountered countless “God”, they will come for you to set lofty ideals, a better life, set a bright future, high-quality, often time, I will think of an ordinary island, Erland poetess — Anna Lv Desitaide poem: “Of course I saw in Europe, those who sat at the table of men and women. I was born it as, but grew up only: Anna in the world to do.”

 

Love is conditional

Sep 27
2009

You can do anything, but you want him to love you, Is not this condition?

Girl said: “I really love him unconditionally, and I even do not need that he loved me.” Yes, even if he did not love her, she was willing to wait for him at his side, she loved his talent; if he had no talent, and she will be duty-bound to love him? will not. Her love, is still conditional.

A woman can love a top-useless man, he was not talented and good for nothing. She said: “This also is not unconditional it?” But she wanted him to promise forever and with her, asking him to promise to reform shortcomings. To a man pay a commitment, this is not a condition what is it?

Man said: “I just love her to this man.” If she looks not so bad, if she is not so smart, if she does not have his favorite character, he will love her? She must meet his conditions, only will be loved.

Each of us is loved by the conditional is conditional love someone else. Not discouraged, since we know there is no such unconditional love, you should strive to make their own conditions to be loved at the same time learn to forget some of the conditions to love one person.

How can one say that you love me

A woman asked: “How can one say that you love me?”

Man said: “When anything happens, you know that I am right hello.”2007362252760376

Have to wait until something had happened to me before know that you are well? So normally what? Similar to the movie “Titanic” of the story takes place in the number of chances on us? How many couples will experience health shut robbed?

Perhaps, women in this life nor the opportunity to know how men love her. Even if a man how much you love a woman, if her life was safe, he would not be heard.

Every time you hear a man say, “When anything happens, you know I am right” to you, I always was a little disappointed. Why must we wait until things happen? Men observe whether a woman through thick and thin, nor is it difficult to wait until when to know. Wait until the real things happen, too late.

Men usually on the right a woman is good, let her feel that he loved her, let her feel happy.

For the time being not to mention the future, if you are not good for me, how good is useless in the future; maybe you will not have any life for me, physically blocking a rushing car, maybe you have not had a chance to use life savings to my life redeemed from the hands of the kidnappers, but I do not want their own grumpy.

So, you are usually on the right I am, a time when anything happens, you would like me better.

 

Friendship is priceless

Sep 26
2009

“My friends, such as the sea, tolerance for a boat, boating, sea-to-know the wide sea; a friend as a mountain, tolerance for the trail, hiking along trails, tall, mountain-to-know; friends pledge allegiance cross and intimate, soulmate, Fang intimate that noble. ”
Person’s lifetime, there are a few intimate friends, some would say it was not ah, I had a lot of intimate friends. But perhaps you are that they are sincere, but they are not and you like them do not know. I feel pretty is relatively lucky, and in school when able to talk to friends. Participated in work experience made me a friend I am especially grateful, although the character of a different galaxy Wolia. She belongs to is very lively, very talkative kind, and I was introverted, poor discourse. However, the two of us together as long as there is lots to talk about the case, said that to other colleagues to listen They also do not believe, because they all know my character, the kind others may say 10, I have come back to the kind of person one might thus making them feel that I do not have close, but in fact, do not think my heart, but that is with them feel tense speechless and did not know the reason. To be honest, even I think it’s strange, I am not familiar with people in general and then a particularly small, always feel that they do not have anything with the words can be extended, but with her first meeting, we talked for a night, really especially happy to have such a friend, what words can tell her. In ordinary times she was like a big sister like to take care of me, and I thought that people rely on the special weight, obsessing about what to do in front of someone with, so every time there is anything she followed behind in front of me to do, of course, I also know that good so I try to correct the shortcomings of their own. I am an emotional person who is not exposed, regardless of my heart to her how grateful I do not thank often hanging in the mouth will not because of anything else but I think this is the case on the heart can be of no need to take them out for.
Intimate friends are really hard to come by, if you have this friendship, do not easily go to undermine it. wa44_youqing-1

Unlocked door

Sep 26
2009

The small rural villages in remote hut there lived a pair of mother and daughter, mother, fearing theft at night, always one to put the chain on the door three locks; daughter was tired of boring and static as the landscape like the village life, she longing for the city, want to see themselves through the radio by the thought that gorgeous world.

    One day morning, his daughter in pursuit of an illusory dream that left the mother. Her mother, sleeping while secretly left home. “Mother, Nijiu as did my daughter it.” Unfortunately, this world better than her vision of the beautiful, she unconsciously and become degenerate path, unable to extricate themselves deep in the mud, when she realized that own fault. 6b0fda395f3612d8b211c791
After a decade, the group has grown up the daughter **** dragging the injured heart and embarrassing body, returned to his hometown. When she came home late at night, weak penetration of light through the crack in the door out. She gently knocked on the door, but suddenly a kind of foreboding. Twist open the door to her daughter when startled. “Well surprisingly, before his mother never forgot to lock on.” Emaciated mother’s body twist on the cold floor to very distressed to look like asleep. “Mother Mother … … … …” On hearing her daughter’s cries, the mother opened his eyes, grabbed her daughter Yiyubufa to tired shoulders. In the mother’s arms crying for a long time, the daughter suddenly curious asked: “Mom, how today’s Ni did not lock the door, someone broke into to how to do?”
    The mother replied: “not just today, and I am afraid you can not enter the house at night suddenly came back, so the past decade have never lock the door too.” 

 Mother ten years now, waiting for her daughter to come back, his daughter in the room furnishings as the year. That evening, mother and daughter returned to look like a decade ago, tightly locked the door and fell asleep.

    Family love is the cradle of hope, thanks for the warmth of family continued to grow.

Life clock

Sep 25
2009

A friend’s father was dying, a friend called me from abroad, let me help him.
     I know what he meant, even with the fastest speed, he can only come back in four hours later, and his father, has been impossible to survive four hours.
     Rushed to the hospital, saw a friend’s father, whole body was filled tubes, are rapid breathing. Bed, Wai full of sad relatives.
     At that time a friend’s father, manic anxiety, eyes closed, hands grasping at random. I vaguely heard him crying friend’s name.
     Everyone look at me, eyes full of helpless expectations. I walked over and gently grabbed his hand, I said, yes me, I come back.
     A friend’s father, at once quiet, serene facial expression becomes. But only a little later, he again became manic, he let go of my hand, continued to be arbitrarily arrested.
     I know, I can not cheat him. No one know more about than his own son. 007-clock001
     So I told him that his son is still abroad, but four hours later, it will certainly come back. My friend’s father said, I promise.
     I saw his relatives fear the eye.
     But the friend’s father was once again quiet, and then his head, hard in one direction Waizhuo, an eagerly raised hand.
     I note that the direction of the wall hung a clock.
     My friend’s father said it was now 1:10. 5:10 pm, your son will come.
     A friend’s father put down his hand, I saw him a long sigh of relief, even though he closed his eyes, but I expect you can almost feel his eyes.
     Every ten minutes, I would have grabbed his hand, with his report the time. Every four hours, 10 minutes was neatly divided, and sometimes I feel that he was about to leave, but always be a month of 10 minutes reclaim.
     My friends rushed to the hospital, he grabbed his father’s hand, he said, was me, I come back. I saw the friend’s father from the closed eyes inside out to meet two drops of tears, and then quietly leave.
     A friend’s father, in order to wait for his son, in order to listen to the voice of his son, survived the last of his life is also the longest four hours. Each one doctor said, unbelievable.
     Later on, I think that if his son can be back in five hours, then he can continue to survive for an hour?
     I think it will. The last moment of life, family can not bear to leave him.
     Leisurely family ties, each one the life of the world clock.

Love and lonelyness

Sep 25
2009

Only love their own people do not have real love, only the arrogance of the possession. Does not love his own people do not have real love, only the humble dedication. Like a Young on the world in the infinite time and space, each one of life How can we not feel the birth of a chance of life and another life is a miracle it encounters. In the vast sea of people, two individuals likely to encounter only a little, and these two individuals to meet the last great chance. The world’s fate is not determined by love, where the margin are of an incidental nature, Good Food of Love is the magic of it not precisely the most casual encounter has aroused the most profound sense of destiny? e8e73bcaa0c16ed952664f1a

If you experience Yueai enriched life, and then the love will enrich the spiritual experience. No matter when you love has experienced success, the experience obtained are valuable for the heart into the heart. Because love, we can only observe human nature and keen interest in things. Because of setbacks, our observations have been toward the deep thinking.

Love is patient, is waiting to generate the sense of time slowly. Xinyu Xin is the closest distance is the farthest. In this pragmatic age, the ability to love is a kind of silly, no such capable people at most had only committed one stupid, and then school wise, and from a realization of all the world the truth about man or woman is no longer blinded by love, but with This ability to learn even if not frustrated, and always believed in the world People have sought his true love. It is precisely because there are still those willing to be silly silly men and women exist, so to find true love Nu services will still be hope.

Life faced antinomy, love and loneliness is one of them. I have absolutely forgotten and his own I am not closed well-being, and is also impossible. So many troubles in love, in the solitude among the pairs there are many sad and dreary. On the other hand, love is true that intoxicated people, lonely people may not be not intoxicated. When the warmest love of the trauma back to Zhu’s own, the people learn to love himself alone, but also learned to understand the other lonely hearts and minds of those in the deep deep love, and thus appreciate to a transcendent well-being.

Loneliness is also a former love, no love of the soul will not be lonely, too lonely not appreciate people who can not understand love. As Huaizhao love hope, loneliness is tolerable, even sweet.
Encounter great luck in life, at this time. Two souls recognize each other Buddhist devotees at the same time, pleasantly surprised shouted: “Yes you are!” Human life as long as there have been at this moment, love and loneliness would have had landed.

In our heart of hearts, love and loneliness is the same kind of emotion, they go hand in hand, can not be separated. The more is when we feel lonely, we have the more cherished a strong desire to love. May be said that one person alone with his experience is directly proportional to the experience of love, and his lonely largely determines the depth of his love capacities. The root causes of loneliness and love each other, and loneliness is love nothing more than to find acceptable but could not, but love is quite simply the discovery of other people’s loneliness and consolation. In the two do not understand the beauty of taste between the lonely, love will flow in the trivial and the mediocre.

Life, purely by chance, so every life must be attached to another life, had each other, go hand in hand.
Life was purely fortuitous, it does not belong to another life, every life, like a gust of wind, unencumbered.
Love alone can be comforting, but it can not, and the elimination of loneliness. If you love a vain attempt to eliminate loneliness, will lose its sense of proportion, go to the opposite. Sense of proportion is a sign of mature love that it understands the need to comply with the distance between people, this distance means that the other party as an independent personality of respect, including respect for the rights of the other party alone.

“Some people Duyi evening makeup House” - what a powerful temptation! Eye-catching way she suggests the absence of love. A lonely woman, who love and affection of the strokes.

I’m enjoying the solitude.

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