Calculate freedom
2009
Once I went to another city, visiting a few years older than my friends. In my circle of friends, he can be called a highly respected, and everyone liked him, I am willing to exchange with him. Several friends have had together, talk over, they all thought he was the biggest feature is the spiritual detachment Dan Ding, has most people have no freedom of the soul, and with him, and then people will be infected neurotic number of static air.
I am at his house for a few days. Dinner after a day in his study, where tea chat. The contents of the chat far apart, all-encompassing. Sometimes two people do not talk a long time, I watched him slowly pour into pot, tea to the cup, do not feel boring.
I asked him, do you come from a share of the free and easy bones revealing how the practice come from? He looked at me, silent for a moment, then stood up, I’ll show you something. Him from the bottom of a bookcase file box out a piece of paper handed to me. This is an A4 printing paper, paper filled with words. He told me that this is his 24-year-old birthday to write things. I know that when he was a university graduate student. I very seriously up: 
1, dormitories, there are two people do not buy open-water bottle, used up my bottle of water not to find water. I decided to put my water bottle, and they spent two years back they played two years of water. If the water did not run out of water to drink, I drink tap water; there is no hot water washing, I use cold water washing. I do not want to become supervisors of their acts, more reluctant because they are angry was sloppy.
2, buy the small things, shopping, no counter-offer. One day lost an average of three hair loss of about 100 yuan a year, this loss, I confessed.
3, buy clothes, do not lose too much counter-offer, no. Is called the girlfriend to buy, bargaining is fun for her, for I am not.
4, take the bus, and never grab a seat, as long as one person standing away from the empty seats do not sit near me.
5, others find themselves through the things that can be borrowed as far as possible by.
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Mo Kanwan, I would categorically say that these things are too trivial, but the underlying motivation for some practices there are also problems, such as the heart may be afraid of conflict with others. I believe that a harmonious personality and deep introspection related, but has nothing to do with these sentimental things.
He smiled and said, I do not want to convince you, but you think about it, life is composed by many of the trivial, the above are trivial, you can learn by analogy, become many, many trivial. Or that my calculations and the value is not the money or conflict, but rather spiritual freedom.
He told me a story: a disciple of Confucius, there are luxury wagon, roughly equivalent to one person is now a Mercedes-Benz 600. Another person something to do at home, would like to take his carriage with a use, but not open. After the disciples heard this, put the horse burned. Others puzzled, he said, I have a coach, others did not dare borrow through, then I still sported do?
He then told me that he had had a value of 3,000 professional-level camera, until he figured out those chores, he always used it secretly, for fear that others know after looking for him to take, by not good, do not lend at好. Figured out who, he put the camera on the dormitory unlocked drawer, with whoever who wants to use, the camera also used the last of the “end” of the time.
3,000 yuan to buy a psychological freedom, you say not Hua Delai draw? Then he Hei hei Huaixiao a moment say that if you would like to take your wife, that is another matter. I also laughed. That night, he did not completely convince me. However, since then I ride the bus, we found that there are no seats to sit, feeling very good. Because the wider field of vision when standing up a wider, you can see more people and scenery
Know two people, a very, very poor one. Rich is well-known real estate veterans, drove the 3.001 million vehicles, like photography, photographic equipment is more than 1 million classic, to Tsinghua read MBA.

This is a wide expanse of fields, the land is fertile and lush. In order to irrigate crops, farmers here, people dug two rivers, a small point, a big point. This large, we may just call him river bar.
I think God is a relative term. Like ants to a tree hole, a water drowned their children to God for the people of Nagasaki in 1945, that four American pilots looking for is a seamless cloud of God, for the 1519 The Aztecs, the Spaniards on horseback who is God.


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