Admit failure

Oct 06
2009

Defeat on the battlefield, games in the defeat, the next chess move of failure, a failure to write articles … … Life is like a trip, things like clouds, failure so leisurely, ambiguous on land with us. May be defeated because of the favorable climatic, geographical, and may also be defeated by the wisdom, will and strength; may be defeated because of the unexpected, it may lose in the knowledge that they are impossible.

Failure is one thing, to admit defeat is another. Failure is the fact that the failure requires courage. Crushed, it may be sympathetic; the courage to defeat made even more worthy of respect. “The defeated will not speak of courage,” but words can not defeat. Failure is certainly not worth showing off, but also not seen anyone from the drums and gongs to celebrate the defeat. But can calmly acknowledge failure, and an objective dispassionate analysis of causes and consequences of failure, if not say, “glorious defeat” or at least be regarded as “something to lose while”; If we say that sometimes fail because of lack of wisdom, then the bold words lose at least not foolish.

Bold statement failures, in order to experience the fun of self-knowledge; bold statement failures, in order to reflect poised tolerance.

55bb12dd3c723d165982dd96May wish to carefully look at people and things around a bit, in the battlefield, shopping malls, and the bureaucratic, casinos, won the most respect, and are often not those winners, but those who face the failure of indifferent smile. A calm, “I lost” and would win the attention of a full-house ceremony.

Unfortunately, some people dare not face defeat, but dare not admit defeat. And as the higher the greater the fame of people, the more love make such a fault. Won, one hundred reasons, there is a 99’s own ability; failed 100 percent because God odds, people already familiar with this sort of thing. Failure Before the ink was dry, lost strokes sound still ringing in our ears, avoided those who are already good, more “negative positive article as” all of you Gaoren, defeat down the tree a hero, to find bright spot in defeat revealed. “Comeback” ability Zhijiao mortal beings can offer.

Failure may be sad, but not terrible; to cover up failure not only terrifying, but also shameful.

Victory or defeat is not unusual military commander. Since it is commonplace, it should be treated as the treatment of food and clothing, as victory or defeat; like to talk about landscapes like to talk about victory or defeat. The faster pace of life, the greater the social pressure, the stronger the competition, the more the factors of failure, the more we need people to have good psychological quality, which is to good to be lost, the courage to defeat a statement. There is a laid-off workers inspired the song “On the success or failure, life heroic, just start from scratch.” The face “start from scratch”, and is more than just a laid-off workers, each of us do not have this? Love, career, family, work … … every step on the road of life are likely to suffer a setback, hit a snag, was unexpected, and each setback enlighten us all: not afraid to lose, only win opportunities; not afraid of defeat, only victory of hope.

Two opposing powers industry, the vault out of the bus. The occasion under siege, take the lead when the gun fight, embattled, attacked front and rear, leaping out of a chessboard step of games on the true meaning of contentment: solid gratifying victory, defeat is also pleased.

Things such as chess, a toss-up, and eventually won, and must be made that the courage to defeat people.

Dilemma is an opportunity

Oct 06
2009

One day, the Lions came before the gods: “I am very grateful to you given me such a magnificent awe-inspiring physical, unparalleled strength so strong, so I have enough ability to rule the whole forest.”

025Gods listened, smiled and asked: “But this is not the purpose of you came to me today, bar! Look you seem to be troubled by something and then!”

Lions roar softly uttered, said: “God really know me ah! I have come is indeed something happens Xiangqiu. Because, despite my ability no matter how good, but the dawn each day, I always will be calls to the noisy chicken wake up. Oh God! pray for you, do not let the chicken in the dawn, when called out! ”

Gods smiled: “You go to the elephant bar, it will give you a satisfactory answer.”

Lions went to the lake to find an elephant, see an elephant being a huff to straight stamping.

Elephant Lion asked: “Why do you made such a big temper?”

Desperately shook the big elephant ears, growled: “There is only a small nuisance mosquitoes, got into my ears, I have almost all itch dead.”

Lions left the elephants, and my heart secretly thinking: “Originally, such a huge elephant size, but also afraid of mosquitoes so thin, that I have nothing to complain about it” After all, nothing but cock once a day, while the mosquito is all the time harassment of the elephant. So think about it, I am more fortunate than he.

Lion walked as he looks back at her still foot-stomping elephant, thinking: “God wanted me to take a look at the elephant, he should just wanted to tell me, who will encounter trouble, but God and can not help all . That being the case, then I had to rely on myself! Anyway, after the call as long as the chicken when the chicken is a reminder as I got up, and so one would like, to me there is actually quite good. ”

An obstacle is a new known conditions, if they wish, no obstacle will become an opportunity to go beyond self.

Life, no matter how much we are moving smoothly, but as long as a little composure whenever things do not encounter some will complain that God habitually ill-treated us, and then pray that God has given us more strength to help us tide over their difficulties. But in fact, God is the most fair, just as its lions and elephants, each has its own difficulties exist positive values.

Show yourself bravely

Sep 23
2009

U.S. steel magnate Carnegie was very poor when he was young. One day, he passed by a construction site on his way back home from school. He saw a well dressed man conducting there.

“ What are you building?” Carnegie went to ask the man who was like a boss.

“ We are building a skycrape foy my general merchandise company and some other companies.” Said the man.

“ You are so outstanding! How can I be like you when I grow up?” Carnegie asked with envy.

“ First, you should word hard…”

“ I have known that for a long time, people all say like this. What’s the second?”

“ To wear a red shirt!”

Aftering hearing this, clever Carnegie was confused, “Is this has anything to do with success?”

“ Yes, it has.” The man pointed at a worker over there and said, “ You see, they are all my employers, but because they are in the same blue shirts, I don’t know anyone of them…”

Then he pointed another work in red shirt saying, “ But you see the guy in red shirt, I’m paying attention to him all the time, although he is as skilful as others, I pay attention to him specially. Therefore I will let him be my assistant several days later.”

It’s a story which is a little absurd, at least I don’t think that boss can hire people so subjectively. But it tells us that we should show ourselves bravely. Achieveing others’ appreciation is not only because of your talent sometimes, what’s more is that how you sell yourself and how you show yourself.

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